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Jonah April 2019

From Wikipedia: A legal guardian is a person who has the legal authority to care for the personal and property interests of another person, called a ward. Guardians are typically used in three situations: guardianship for an incapacitated senior, guardianship for a minor, and guardianship for developmentally disabled adults.

<– Here is Jonah’s most recent photo  He turned 17 on March 7th
(I can’t believe it either!), and so Andy and I started the process of obtaining legal guardianship of our Boo.  If we don’t do this, we lose the right to make decisions on his behalf once he turns 18.  As an adult in New York State, no other person is allowed to make a personal, medical or financial decision for you. 

You’d think it would be easy for parents to become guardians of their significantly developmentally disabled son.  It’s not like Jonah is on the borderline of normal intelligence or cognitive ability, and it’s not like we are distant relatives.  And yet they require all this paperwork, some notarized – addresses going back 28 freaking years for Andy, me, and anyone over 18 living with us.  No way I remember all the places I’ve lived since 1991, the year I graduated from college.  I had to guesstimate.  Hell, I lived in Thornwood, NY for a year and don’t even remember the name of my street.  

Then the lawyer tells me someone will most likely want to interview Jonah about it.  I felt equal parts surprised and amused.  “I highly encourage you to interview my son,” I told him.  I wish I could be there for that one.

Interviewer:  Jonah, do you think your parents should be able to make decisions for you?

Jonah:  Car ride?

Interviewer:  Now, Jonah, can you tell me what you would like to do when you leave the Anderson School for Autism?

Jonah: CAR RIDE!?

Maybe Jonah will kick his ass for good measure.

Just kidding.

Kinda.

The truth is Jonah still hasn’t even tried to kick anyone’s ass since I don’t know when.  Months.  Almost half a year, probably.  No hitting, no kicking, no head butts, no scratching, no hair pulling, no glasses snatching, no biting.

I didn’t know if I’d ever type those words.  I remember when we first brought Jonah to Anderson, a senior staff member told me sometimes these kids grow out of the aggression.  At the time I thought she was just being kind.  Now I think Jonah’s got a chance at more independence – or at least a less restrictive environment.

They even lowered Jonah’s dosage of Clozaril a little.

Of course he’s got a boatload of issues still.  He’s half blind, sluggish, and has warts & skin tags they’re in the process of removing.  He has some anxious days with crying jags punctuated by painful-sounding sobs.  Left to his own devices, he will sleep more often than not.  We can rarely decipher his words, and so we’ve memorized sounds he uses to indicate desires.  If he wants the radio station changed, for example, he used to say “other radio.”  This phrase has degenerated into “uhh-ay-oh.”  And so on.

Sometimes when we pick him up on Sunday he’ll have already gotten up to eat breakfast and gone back to bed again.  On these days, when we arrive we knock on his bedroom door.  Jonah sits up groggily and Andy or one of the house peeps helps him get dressed.   We pack him into the car, our sleepy-eyed Boo – complete with bedhead, all smelling like pancake syrup and body wash.  My heart swells with love for him.  I want to scoop him into my arms and rock him, but he’s no baby.  At 5’8″ he’s officially taller than me – bigger than me – and I don’t think he’s done growing.  I even wear his old sneakers.

I emailed his speech therapist about how we can’t understand him very well anymore.  She answered:

I have noticed that when Jonah is tired or unmotivated, his enunciation/intelligibility does go down. This does make it harder to understand what he is saying. Often times, I will ask him to either repeat what he said, ask him to speak louder, or to show me what he wants/needs. I will also tell him that I cannot understand him and that if he wants something, he needs to speak more clearly. This will often encourage him to speak up a bit. These are just different things that I have tried and that I have seen work with him. However, there are times when he’s not as motivated and does not care to communicate better- perhaps it’s the teenager in him.

Otherwise, Jonah is doing well and again I truly enjoy working with him. I am proud to see how far along he has come these past few years!

“It’s the teenager in him”  I loved that.  

And we’ll try her suggestions.  I know we are guilty of not asking enough of Boo.  We’re working on that.

It was a good Easter.  Andy drove Boo up to grandma’s house, where he sat at the table for a while (eating pizza, a chocolate bunny, and a piece of ham) – I couldn’t watch – and then we drove to the train tracks and saw a train – all successfully and without incident.

Jonah’s hair is the longest it’s ever been in his life.  He’s got thick, wavy brown locks I’d love to have on my own head.  My mom thinks it’s too long (when actually it isn’t much longer than the Beatles in 1964) and says he won’t comb it.  She’s probably right, but I think he looks handsome.

I show people this picture I took of him on Easter and they say I’m a great photographer.  What they don’t know, but I think should be obvious, is that I took 80 million photos of him to get a good one.

Doesn’t everyone do this?

Today when my mom and I drove down for our visit, Jonah was happy and hungry.  He asked for donut so we got him his favorite, sugared jelly, from the Dunkin’ Donuts drive thru.   All the while Andy’s scrolling through Sirius radio station by station and Jonah’s telling us uhh-ay-oh or on (if he wants it louder).  He has a fickle taste in music these days; just when you think you’ve got his preferences nailed, he’ll surprise you.

Today he disdained Public Enemy, his usual favorite, in favor of a funky disco tune.  Andy claims he even was digging some polka one day.  I wish I could find that hard to believe, but I know my son has picked some seriously weird songs for favorites.  I’m happy he likes music without the slightest care whether his choices are in any way cool, socially acceptable, or based on anything but caprice.  He just likes what he likes.

He wanted to nap at Andy’s apartment but when I asked if I could lie down with him the answer was no.  He did bestow a kiss and hug on both grandma and me, which was enough to make my day.

For those of you waiting for a boot update:

I found it.

Divinity made my missing boot re-appear, praise little baby Jason!

Actually, by then I’d already bought another pair I liked more, so the whole thing was a little anticlimactic.  The other boot was on my back porch, in the verrrrry bottom of a verrrrry big, tall box stuffed with Styrofoam and packaging paper.  I was breaking boxes down for recycling when I found it.

“Well I’ll be damned,” I said aloud, more to the boot than about it.

The Universe is Puck, playing games with us all.

Happy Sunday.

Spring is here!

 

 

<—  Me, Easter 1973.  Age 3 1/2

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On Thursday the 7th, I took time off work for Jonah’s quarterly glaucoma doc appointment.  Two Med Run Peeps drive him the 90 minutes up to Albany every time in the Anderson van; Jonah rides in the way way back, transported like His Majesty the Prince of Rhinebeck.  I was very much looking forward to seeing him.  It has been a long, long stretch of time since Boo has had an aggression.  Since maybe October.  I was hopeful he’d be glad to see me.

The stars were aligned this day.  It was Laura Ingalls Wilder’s 152nd birthday, the Med Run Peeps were being their awesome, caring, kind selves, and Jonah was cooperative and happy.  Silly and funny.  Amazingly good.

Even more so when you consider that, unlike most visits to this doc, we had to wait a while; they wanted to take a scan of Jonah’s eyes before he saw his regular doctor.  So we moved to an empty area of the waiting room, where geriatrics henceforth feared to tread – though those with vision watched us curiously and not unkindly.  Jonah laughed his brash, loud laugh, pacing up and down the row of empty chairs.  He hugged me and asked for more kiss? again and again.

My son is nearly a man.  In a photo, he sometimes looks like a regular kid who is 16-going-on-17.

In person, though, there is no mistaking him for a “normal” teenager.  His disability is as visible as if he were in a wheelchair, and to be honest I don’t mind that.  In general, people are more compassionate now.  When Jonah was very young – until he was 10 or 12, really, this was rarely the case.

Back then, to some, Andy and I were bad parents of an out-of-control kid.  Once, an autism-denier went so far as to comment that I should give him Jonah for a week and he’d “straighten him out.”  (I think his comment is still on that long-ago post).  I remember how tempting it was to let him try… just to sit back and watch Boo kick his ass.   If there is anything from those darkest days I miss, it’s the secret evil pleasure of watching Jonah attack a smug doctor who’d ignored my earnest warnings of severe aggression.

I talk about the pendulum swinging: aggressions and respite, hope and despair – our cyclic existence with no real patterns upon which to prepare for the next “season.”

Dare I pretend
to hope
to believe
Jonah’s aggressions have disappeared altogether?

Since autumn of 2010, I don’t think he’s ever gone this long without aggressing in some way against someone.  He still gets squirrely, and he’ll swat or “flinch,” as the school calls it, motioning his hand in a warning.  It’s the rattle of the snake, and yet nothing comes of it anymore.  Now it is an end unto itself.

His awesome teacher Sophia wrote me yesterday that he had zero flinches this week.  Not just zero aggressions. Zero flinches.  My hero zero.

I’m proud of my son.  I think he’s worked hard with the wonderful teachers & caregivers to learn how to manage his feelings.  Fred (Mr.) Rogers said he wanted to teach children that feelings are mention-able and manageable.  It may well be one of the most important lessons a person can learn.

The rest of Sophia’s email to me reads:  “This week we learned more about coins and bills, we celebrated the Chinese New Year, the Phases of the Moon, we did an experiment with Oreos to show the phases.  Jonah enjoyed the part where he got to eat the cookies!  We made a banana sushi roll today during Group OT and we also enjoyed a nice walk outside!”

I was so happy to hear about his week and know he spends time learning in ways that are fun and comfortable for him.  When he first arrives at the classroom, he gets under a beanbag chair and blanket for a while.  They recognize he needs to start his day this way and I appreciate that.

And so Jonah is well, and happy.

The rest of this post involves another disappearance – so if you’re here just for Jonah news, all done. 

Every day when I get home and don’t have to go out again, it is my custom to take off my winter ‘office work boots’ I wear nearly every day and place them next to the radiator in my bedroom.  So on that same day – Thursday, February 7, I came home from Jonah’s appointment and put the boots where I always put them.

That night I woke up at 1am mid-migraine, head pounding hard.  I immediately got out of bed and took the med that stops my migraines about 50% of the time.  Then I stumbled into the bathroom and, without turning on the terrible light which has become my nemesis, found a washcloth and ran very cold water over it.  I returned to bed and nearly started crying in despair for what I knew was likely coming:  the 24-36 hour marathon of puking, even the tiniest sip of water rejected; dehydration and retching causing my head pounding to worsen and the head pounding causing nausea, on and on in a nightmarish underworld where there is only pain and the desperate desire not to be in pain.  In those first minutes lying down with the cool cloth, I prayed.  I prayed the fervent, frantic prayer of one willing and ready to strike a deal with Divinity.  Please, please, let this migraine subside and I’ll do anything.  You can take anything from me. Just make it stop.

And lo, on this day in the year of our Lord twenty nineteen, the migraine stopped, blessedly subsiding into nothing – the pain retreating as if ordered to cease and desist.  I eased into unconsciousness before I could pray or even think my thanks.

The next day I awoke…

…and, as part of my every day morning routine, got dressed, reached for my boots…

And this is what I saw:

One boot.

I looked under the bed.  No boot.  In the closet.  No boot.  After a while I didn’t have time to look anymore so I found my old pair from last year and wore them instead, telling myself I’ll find the other one later.  After all, how hard can it be to find a knee-high boot?  Yes, I lost 3 books of holiday stamps after New Year’s, but those are stamps.  This is a freaking boot.

Only later that day did I realize I’d promised in my prayer the night before to give anything for the migraine to go away.

The only conclusion I can come to is God took my boot.

It is now the next day, Saturday, and my mother’s birthday (Happy Birthday Grandma, says Boo).  I have conducted a thorough search for the missing boot.  I have looked in ridiculous areas and places where no boot could ever hide.   As of this writing I have no explanation, and I’m trying not to think about it all too much, lest it freak me out completely.

If after my death I am deemed so wonderful as to be considered for sainthood, could this missing boot count as my required miracle?

The world may never know…but I’ll keep you posted if I find it.

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a brother for my birthday

Note:  In this blog post, when I reference my parents – my mom or my dad, I am referring to the ones who adopted and raised me; they are my “real” parents.  When I write about my biological mother and father, I say birth mother or birth father.  And since all my found siblings are half-siblings, I describe them simply as my sisters and brothers.


I’ve written about finding my birth family, then meeting (and loving!) my sister, Barbara, who lives close by.  This summer I got to meet three more siblings.

First, my younger brother and sister on my birth father’s side: Kathleen and Scott came up from Arizona with their spouses & kids to nearby Saratoga to see relatives.  I visited them at a camp they’d rented and spent some time with all of them for a BBQ outside.  It was fun; they’re good people with happy families.   For my birthday, Kathleen and her husband & only daughter mailed me presents (including a huge home-made card her daughter colored) and a framed photo of Scott, me, and Kathleen from the day I visited them:

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I’m less than a year older than Scott, and 6 years older than Kathleen.   It’s weird to be oldest because I’m the youngest on my birth mother’s side – and after all, I was an only child for the great majority of my life.

Now I’m one of seven.  The mind reels.

Of course I’ll always be an only child where my parents are concerned.  That’s cool too.  Hell, I’m probably the only person for miles who is simultaneously the only, oldest, and youngest child.  Best of all worlds.

So Barbara and I flew down to see our big brother Philip for the first week in September.  I had the idea to turn it into an ocean vacation because he lives in Alabama and some of the Florida beaches are less than 2 hours from him.

As it turned out, he drove to us on the morning of September 2 – my 49th birthday.  When I opened the door, he grabbed me up in a huge hug that felt like he’d never let me go.  It was a reunion for Barbara too, for she hadn’t seen him in person for a few years.

The three of us had a ball.  We had beautiful, sunny days and fun-but-not-dangerous storms, too.  The place was right on the beach and we cavorted like kids, swimming and laughing and playing.  Philip and I hit it off right away; I marveled at how much we looked and acted alike.  The three of us sit the same way and have so many of the same mannerisms.  Plus we have other things in common – bits of geeky weirdness – that I never thought could be genetic.  Barbara even gave me a shirt that said “Majestically Awkward” with two flamingos on it; she’d bought one for herself as well.  It’s perfect!

Here are some photos from our time together:

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Philip has stayed in touch with both of us since we came home.  He worries about me and loves me and checks in on me just like he’s always been a big brother, something I’m not used to at all.

He makes me feel valued and safe, and I’m grateful for him.

“I like having you for a brother…
I like having you for my big brother.”

~Rainman

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his wonderful teacher

From: Sophia
Sent: Tuesday, September 25, 2018 7:55 AM
Subject: Jonah!

“Good Morning Amy and Andy!

I’m back!  I just wanted to say thank you so very much for the kind words and well wishes.  Meant the world to me.  Also thank you for the card, you didn’t have to do that.  I know the whole situation was an accident.  I love Jonah very, very much!  I am happy to be back and excited for this school year!

Jonah did an awesome job with all the other staff that were here while I was away.  I will let you know how the rest of his week goes!  Have a great week!”  🙂

Sophia

Special Education Teacher

Classroom 312

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I’m glad I had the wisdom to visit Boo by myself the day after that last post.  Since my mom has been driving down with me every other week, I’ve had a host of other companions join me on her off-weeks.  My sister, two different cousins, and a good friend.  But I knew better this time, and I was right.

Andy and I had just picked Jonah up for his visit, and after a few minutes he asked for donut.  Andy told him yes, but about 10 seconds later he suddenly grabbed a hunk of hair on the right side of my head.  Andy immediately responded by pulling the car over, but before he could get out I felt Jonah’s other hand take a second hunk of my hair, and I was pinned against the seat, my head yanked back.

Andy ran around to get in Jonah’s side and there was a brief struggle before first one chunk of my hair, then the other, was released.  I scrambled out of the car like a hijacking victim trying to escape, my hair in every direction, tears streaming down my face.   Before I could wipe the hair and tears away I nearly stumbled into a car parked nose-to-nose with us.  A police car.  Evidently the cop was driving in the other lane and crossed lanes to pull over and check out the scene.  He opened his door and starting walking toward me.  I must have looked a wreck.

While Andy calmed Jonah down, I tried to get my shit together so I could explain what was happening.  By this time other cars were slowing down to rubberneck.  I started to ask the officer his name and simultaneously saw his name badge:  SCATTERGOOD.  “Your name is Officer Scattergood?” I asked, trying to seem like a normal person, hoping this was an auspicious sign.  “Ye-es,” he said haltingly, evidently hesitant to scatter the good until he assessed the situation.

First he attempted to talk through the open car window to Jonah himself, who by this time was calm and ready for more car ride.  “What happened here?” he asked Boo, who deigned to glance over for a few seconds before turning away.   Andy and I began to explain, each of us supplying bits of information.

Officer Scattergood asked me if I needed EMS and, when I declined, he took down our info.  I asked if he had been trained in responding to people with disabilities, and he said he actually just recently completed a 2-hour autism training course.  Still, we must have been his first autism rodeo; he seemed unsure quite what to do.  Finally he wished us well and we continued on our way.  I pulled my seat all the way forward and out of Boo’s reach.

It wasn’t until I got home and in the shower that I felt scratches all along my neck and right shoulder, and two small bald spots on my head.  I saw all the hair that had rinsed away in the tub and caught in my brush afterward.  (Good thing I have plenty.).   My scalp ached some, but it could have been worse.

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<– Boo was okay for the rest of our visit.  I tucked him in tight for our nap and then lay next to him (on top of the tucked-in sheets so as to give myself a quick escape route, should he attack again) but he only giggled, piled pillows on top of himself, and fell asleep.

I’ve been wondering how the whole scenario with the cop might have played out differently had we been a black family.  I like to think we would have been all right either way, but I also know the world is a volatile place right now where race and police are concerned.

I was very impressed by Childish Gambino’s This is America video and have felt compelled to watch it again and again.  One of my coworkers, S,  is young enough to be my son; he’s the one who showed it to me.  S grew up poor and his family all chipped in to get him through college – not just mom and dad but aunts and uncles and cousins, all lifting him up.  He’s also Hispanic and so we sometimes talk about race, racism, and everything that goes with and exists around it – perceived and real entitlement, privilege…socialism and sexism and capitalism.

I just totally pasted that into my blog post by accident.  Well, I meant to paste the link but there the whole thing is, right?  Ferris Bueller, talking about “isms?”  I could have done that with This is America, too, then.  I guess.  I figure things out as I go along, and technology is whizzing past me.  I end up learning things completely by accident.

The youngster at work is also good at helping me out in this regard.

So off to Boo I go again tomorrow, this time with my mom, our fingers crossed again. Lately he’s had both good days and squirrely ones.

His cool teacher sent me this picture of him, saying he showed up to school with the goofy hat on.  His shirt is courtesy of mama, who is growing tired of grandma’s ultra-conservative taste.  Jonah is not a golfer, nor a Rhodes scholar.  His clothes should reflect his silly, bright, whirlwind of a personality.

See you tomorrow, Boo!

 

 

 

 

 

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So I was editing the last post, and “similar posts” came up along the bottom.  Among them I found:

my 100th post mother’s day mystery

in which I bore you all with the same exact story about Sara Crewe and A Little Princess.  Oops.

I rarely read my old blog posts and I’ve never read the whole blog through start to finish.  I wonder how many times I’ve gone on about Laura Ingalls Wilder, Guster, Elfquest, A Little Princess, etc. in the same way, over & over? Am I getting forgetful in my middle age, repeating myself without realizing it?  Or am I autistic and fixated on telling the same stories and references ad infinitum?

At least now I know the first year the magician started coming, which makes this year 7. That’s new information for sure.

I COULD just go back and edit that last post, but that would be a lie of sorts.  This memory thing is part of who I am.  I do often forget that I’ve already told someone something, or I forget to whom I told what.  

Sometimes I forget because I need to forget.  In the process, other things get tossed out in the wash.

I suppose there are worse things that could happen to my mind.

Tomorrow I drive down alone to visit Boo with Andy.  Jonah has had a rough week; yesterday he even bit a caregiver on the stomach and fought with another.  And here I thought I just might start to maaayyybe hope that his aggressions were gone for good.  At least mostly.

But no.  No, again.  No.  Again.

I have to be careful tomorrow.  Follow all the old rules.  No glasses, be vigilant, tuck the sheets under him and not me when we take a nap.  If we take a nap.  I’m nervous about it, and sad, and it makes my PTSD kick in, my heart pounding pounding pounding, teeth clenched, muscles tight, jaw like stone.

Plus it’s been raining and dreary all day, and there was another school shooting yesterday. 10 people dead in Texas.  I read the comments on the articles about it, all the solutions, all the suggestions, the angry finger-pointing name-calling righteous people who blame and lash out, mock and ridicule, troll and flame, everyone saying it has to stop, it has to stop, it has to stop.  We have forgotten how to be kind to one another, even in the wake of a tragedy.  It’s more important that someone else is wrong and you are right.  It’s more important to be heard than to listen.  Ours is a broken country.

I’m exhausted from caring about too many broken things.  I’m exhausted from crying about it and about Boo earlier, and exhausted from rage cleaning – scrubbing and sweeping, vacuuming and doing wash, whirlwind style, vigorous and hard.  I always clean like this when I’m feeling angry and helpless.  It’s a giant metaphor.  I can’t scrub the world of its hate and I can’t wash the aggression from my son, but I can at least do the dishes and make the fucking sink shine.  I can clean my own little corner of the world.

Wish us luck tomorrow, Andy and me.  That last time he hurt me pretty bad.

If he does it again, though, at least I’ll probably forget it.

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For the past several years, someone has left flowers on my front porch steps on Mother’s Day.  Not bouquets in vases but flowers in pots, ready to be planted.  Different kinds each year, but always flowers.  I think it started the first Mother’s Day after Jonah went away.

This year on Mother’s Day I returned from visiting Jonah with my mom and saw the flowers there again, as always – a pot of bleeding hearts this time with a card from Boo, the handwriting unrecognizable (deliberately, I presume).

Always the flowers make my day.  A magician has come, I think to myself.  Someone who knows I drive to visit Jonah every Sunday.  Someone who wishes to remain anonymous…who knows my Mother’s Days are never all that happy since Jonah left, no matter what the day is like.

I used to think of all the possible magicians, trying to identify who in my life could possibly be that dedicated to this.  To me.  Since the flowers started coming, they have never stopped.  Year after year – for 6 or 7 years now without fail, I am visited by a magician who places flowers on my steps and slips away.  This simple, loving, ever-faithful gesture touches my heart more than I can say.

Of course I plant the flowers every year, usually a week or so after I get them.  I like to keep them inside for a while first, so I can look at them, smile, and think about whomever gave them to me – enjoying the mystery of the magician’s annual appearance.

This year, it finally occurred to me: the magician probably reads my blog.  How else would they be certain I’m not home when they arrive every Mother’s Day?  How else would they know I call Jonah Boo? After all, I rarely do so outside this blog.  The already small field of possible magicians narrows.  But I respect their desire to remain anonymous, and I do not intend to ferret them out.

Every year, though, I find myself wishing I could thank the magician.  And now that I am pretty sure they read this blog, I can.

In a “cosmic coincidence” kind of way, this is remarkably similar to a fictional scenario I love and have read many, many times:  the story of Sara Crewe, my all-time favorite heroine in my all-time favorite book, A Little Princess by Frances Hodgson Burnett.

At one point in our heroine’s story, she is poor, hungry and living in the dingy attic of a fancy girls’ boarding school.  One day she wakes up to find the attic suddenly and inexplicably transformed with little folding chairs, blankets and pillows, books, steaming tea and little sandwiches set up on a little table, a fire in the long-unused fireplace, and beautiful tapestries on the walls.  Sara is astounded.

Every day the magician, for that is what she calls him, brings more and more little pleasant things to make her happy.  She loves the magic of it and abandons herself happily to the mystery as well, enjoying all that is brought to make her sorrow-filled servant life happier.  But one thing nags at her, and she relates this to Becky, her fellow scullery maid:

“I can’t help thinking about my friend,” Sara explained. “If he wants to keep himself a secret, it would be rude to try and find out who he is. But I do so want him to know how thankful I am to him—and how happy he has made me. Anyone who is kind wants to know when people have been made happy. They care for that more than for being thanked. I wish—I do wish—”

She stopped short because her eyes at that instant fell upon something standing on a table in a corner. It was something she had found in the room when she came up to it only two days before. It was a little writing-case fitted with paper and envelopes and pens and ink.

“Oh,” she exclaimed, “why did I not think of that before?”

She rose and went to the corner and brought the case back to the fire.

“I can write to him,” she said joyfully, “and leave it on the table. Then perhaps the person who takes the things away will take it, too. I won’t ask him anything. He won’t mind my thanking him, I feel sure.”

So she wrote a note. This is what she said:

I hope you will not think it is impolite that I should write this note to you when you wish to keep yourself a secret. Please believe I do not mean to be impolite or try to find out anything at all; only I want to thank you for being so kind to me—so heavenly kind—and making everything like a fairy story. I am so grateful to you, and I am so happy—I used to be so lonely and cold and hungry, and now—oh, just think what you have done for me! Please let me say just these words. It seems as if I OUGHT to say them. THANK you—THANK you—THANK you!

THE LITTLE GIRL IN THE ATTIC.

The next morning she left this on the little table, and in the evening it had been taken away with the other things; so she knew the Magician had received it, and she was happier for the thought.

And so, just like Sara, I get to say:

Thank you for being so kind to me—so heavenly kind—and making everything like a fairy story.  THANK you—THANK you—THANK you!

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